I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrendous experience.
Steven Colbert of TV's Comedy Central was in the news a lot this week after his controversial speech/performance at the Whitehouse Correspondent"s Dinner which was shown on CSpan and is available on the Web at thankyoustevencolbert.org.
He next appeared on 60 Minutes (also available online) where he told Morley Safir that his satirical comedic style probably was shaped by a general mistrust of "authority" figures
which developed at the age of ten when his father and two brothers were killed in an Eastern Airlines crash. He said that he then took on the task of trying to cheer up his mother in the aftermath of their ( I gathered that he also felt "seemingly senseless") loss.
Wikipedia has a biography of Steven with this entry:
Colbert was raised in Charleston, South Carolina, the youngest of eleven children. Colbert's father, who was a doctor, and two of his older brothers, died in the crash of Eastern Airlines Flight 212 on September 11, 1974 when Colbert was 10 years old.
The 911 terrorist attack must have been doubly traumatic to you both!